Romantic Gift: Everything From The Heart

If you can’t think beyond a diamond ring or a bottle of perfume then there is no need to worry. There is good news, giving romantic gifts is an area that has scope for an array of intimate ideas. You should keep in mind that the idea behind romantic gifts should come from the heart, especially when they are being given to a special person.

The present should make a statement of the affection felt. It does not necessarily have to be expensive. A simple gift that conveys deep felt feelings would in many instances be preferable. Romantic gifts provide one of the best means of expressing love and affection and there are many choices available.

A Variety of Gifts to Choose From

A diamond ring encased in a beautiful red velvet box would convey not only deep felt feelings; this also shows how much you care when you wrap the gift appealingly. It is never recommended that the romance of the gift be spoiled by lack of wrapping. Using a decorative bag to present the romantic gift is another way of saying how much you care. An extremely personal romantic gift is lingerie, as it is both intimate as well as conveys a message of how much you love the person and should mostly be gifted only to a beloved partner.

Another very romantic gift is a bottle of wine or champagne which are ideal to make an evening cosy and intimate and when accompanied by a box of chocolates, it makes a telling statement of how romantically you are inclined towards your partner or sweetheart.

Traditional Romantic Gifts Continue To Impress

Flowers also make for very romantic gifts. A bouquet of red roses would show you care and they are perhaps the most romantic flowers of all. For a little variety one can try including orchids, carnations or lilies. Along with flowers, a bottle of perfume would also make a very romantic gift since it is much appreciated by both sexes and is considered very romantic. It can help create a perfectly romantic ambience and is seductive.

Women would certainly find articles of jewellery to be very romantic and contemporary jewellery items would make ideal romantic gifts. The romantic gift need not be a thing but one may also consider a romantic candle light dinner to be a very romantic gift, as it helps a couple spend time together in a perfectly splendid romantic mood and in intimate surroundings.

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Old-fashioned dates

Inject a little romance into your life with some old-fashioned dates.

Coffee and a gallery
Meeting in the day for a first date can ease the pressure a little, you can chat in a quiet cafi and then potter around a gallery, museum or the park. You could even go for a picnic, weather permitting. Daytime dates also allow you the chance to cut them short with minimum disruption if it is going terribly.

Do: Talk, try to stay sober.
Don't: Dress for clubbing, bore them on the relative merits of existentialism.

Meal at a restaurant
Traditional and fairly failsafe, the candlelit meal for two can be very romantic. Dress up for the occasion, eat, drink, talk and be merry.

Do: Check what type of restaurant they like and book a table. Be sure to avoid food that is messy to eat (spaghetti etc), 'bolognese chin' is not a good look.
Don't: Order garlic-drenched food unless they do too; talk with your mouth full.

Movie and milkshake
"Saturday night at the movies, who cares what picture we see?" Well they probably will, so either work out what you want to see together beforehand, or on the night. Sitting in the cinema for a couple of hours will allow those nerves to subside before you really get chatting, as well as giving you something to talk about. It's important to go for a drink afterwards, be it a coffee or a cocktail, otherwise you've just gone out to sit in silence, and that's not good for romance, even if you did spend the whole time pashing.
Do: Choose somewhere that's not too packed and rowdy, as you want to be able to sit down together and hear each other without having to shout.
Don't: Cry over spilt milk.

Moonlit stroll
Imagine it, on a crisp winter night you both wrap up warm and walk hand in hand in the moonlight, admiring the burnt out cars, sewage, and general detritus you stroll by. Is something wrong with this picture? YES! Location, location, location is all important to keeping the romance, as is your general safety fear may add to the 'my hero' gasps, but not if you both get mugged.
Do: Pick a pretty setting, such as a beach, the riverside or parkland.
Don't: Think a walk to the 24-hour garage will do the trick.

Dancing cheek to cheek
Be it ballroom or salsa, being that close to a new partner will either ignite the passion or put it out, but either way the date should be fun, and it will help to break the ice.

Do: Learn to dance! If you don't know how to dance, take lessons beforehand, get inspired by the film Born Romantic, and whisk your date off their feet.
Don't: Stink, and don't stamp on their feet, stilettos leave holes and big boots break bones.

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PHYSICAL ATTRACTION

Don't be fooled by yourself or kind hearted friends. Looks matter in the dating game and never more so than in the media-savvy world we live in today. It may be unfair, we may hate it, but it is true. Image is king and speaks volumes about who we are. From the clothes we wear to the places we eat and drink to the places we decide to inhabit, people notice what we do and make judgments as to who we are by how we look.

The very first facet of our self-image is our presentation to others and this is initially portrayed through the way we look. Now I think it's fair to say that most people don't have a fabulous self image. We all know people who love themselves but generally, though we may like ourselves, we don't love everything about us. We may not like our noise, the shape of our face, our hair, and the way we get a wrinkle around the eye. Maybe our bum is too big or we could do with losing some weight. But whatever it is, there will always be something that could be bettered. Just look at the way people who have had a lot of cosmetic surgery still manage to complain. Well I am sorry, but perfection is somewhat elusive.

The basis of any courtship, date or relationship is basic physical attraction. If you are not attracted to someone and they are not attracted to you, you have just become friends. Whatever happens afterwards, it is likely to stay that way. You both must be physically attracted on some level to make things work. Yes, spiritual attraction, deep respect and friendship all do play a part in the longer term but in the first few minutes of meeting we instantly recognize whether there is an attraction and chemistry present between us.

These basic signals dilate pupils, redden the skin, wet the lips and arouse base human instincts. That desire is to lead to the wish to have sex. The issue is that these signals are being eroded by well-meaning campaigners who say that looks should not matter. I am not really very good looking in my own opinion but I do know what I look like. And I do know who and what I am attracted to. I am sometimes called shallow because I go for a certain look for my dates. But the point is that these looks are what I find attractive and I tend to go for people who go for my kind of looks, thus increasing the chance of dating success.

Initial dates are all about looks, about who and what we find attractive and we are foolish if we try and suppress these desires. If you like someone's hair, eyes, lips, and the way they play with their fingers, the way they hold a glass or the way they walk then this is all on purpose. It is all part of the grander plan of matching like with like. By matching couples who are physically attracted, it is nature's way of pairing off. And for the most part it works well. The issue arises where we have trouble finding people who find us attractive.

The first thing that springs to mind is that where physically appealing looks are lacking, so people tend to make up with personality. Some of the sexiest people I have ever met are not physically attractive but they are immensely funny. Comedians are often not the best looking people you have met but are very attractive. This in some way comes from their inner confidence and stage presence. It is often said that men who are not too tall exude character and personality to make up for it. Again this may be true.

The key thing though is that we must not underplay the reality that looks are important when dating. We should try to understand what kind of looks we really are attracted to and what kind of people we appeal to. We should understand how we look to others. If we are unhappy with the way we look then we should take necessary steps to look the best we can. That is not for others but purely for us. In turn this will increase confidence levels and help make us more attractive. People will often say that one should not care about what is outside but what is inside that matter. It’s true. That is the way the world should be. But it isn't. That kind of comment comes from those who are secretly worried about the way they look.

Conversely people often say that for them, looks don't matter. That is not true either. Looks never matter when you already like the look of someone and find them acceptably attractive. Looks only matter when you are not attracted to someone physically. When you are seriously not attracted, then the looks of the other party become an issue even if you won't admit it. By generally meeting people who are attractive to you, you will eventually believe that on a conscious level you don't acknowledge looks.

It is true that your view on physical attractiveness changes as you get older and as you mature in outlook. A man of 50 may not be attractive to a girl of 20 but may be very attractive to a woman of 40. Then again a woman of 45 can be very attractive to a man of 30. It all depends.

Our lives and the way we have developed in connection with life-experiences govern to some degree what and who attracts us. Personally, I like long straight blonde hair, but it is as much related to my teenage likings for the blonde singer of Fleetwood Mac or Agnetha from Abba as it is for any other reason. So there may be a link to what we find attractive on an emotional as well as physical level due to the early connections we make.

In modern society, we can all look good and we can look healthy. It is possible to buy image from the local store and we are sophisticated presenters of image through our exposure to the media. But in the end we are in danger of losing a connection to the most basic of instincts, physical match. We can pretend that men and women who seek physical perfection are shallow and outdated, but they are only following their basic instincts. We can disguise and we can pretend and we can plead for others to look at our inner selves first and we can spend months chatting on an Internet dating site to show how nice we are. However in a two minute meeting face to face, we both know whether it will work or not.

Physical matching is not about physical perfection, it is about compatibility. If you are not feeling truly good about yourself when you are about to begin dating then take some time out to take an inventory of yourself and then set about changing a few things. Remember that everything you do in life affecting your appearance should primarily be for yourself but at the same time if you are serious about dating successfully you really should think very seriously about how you look to others. As I have said previously, you may be searching for your perfect partner, but to find them you may well have to try and present yourself as their ideal mate too.

Finally consider this. A survey recently asked what attribute people most associated with being poor and unsuccessful. The top answer was being overweight and the second was smoking.

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GETTING DUMPED – BECOMMING SINGLE

Its happens to us all from time to time and it is the bad part about dating. Getting dumped is about someone who you spent time with who doesn't want a close relationship anymore. On almost all occasions, when you‘ve been dumped, it comes as a surprise, a nasty surprise. Looking back you think to yourself, well I could see that coming really. But at the time, you were not prepared.

On almost every occasion you’ve been dumped, the partner who has dumped you has been thinking of doing it for longer than you imagine. It appears they suddenly dumped you after an argument or some minor incident but actually, they have been playing the scenario out in their heads for quite a while. When partners spontaneously try and dump you, they make a hash of it. It goes wrong. If someone has practiced the scenario they won't be swayed and will try and convince you to see life from their point of view. Which is dreadful.

Being dumped usually happens when you least expect it and its possible that you were almost dumped a week or two earlier when your other half went through the motions but didn't actually quite have the nerve to see things through. It was almost like a Practise session. Then when it finally does come, its gentle and firm and clear. This partner doesn't want to be with you anymore. They are detached when they speak because they need to be. They have to detach themselves from emotion not because they don't have any feelings, but because this is what it takes to walk away.

The partner who is dumping you has temporarily learned to cope with shutting feelings out so that they can deal with saying good-bye. To be honest though, their emotional state may be fraught but it is backed up by a sense of escape and release and so they are feeling very different emotions from you. They are feeling that they need to get this conversation over and done with and want you to accept the situation as gracefully as possible.

Certainly the lover dumping you is being heartless in some ways and they don't have your interests at heart, only their own, which is why they often try and sugar coat the situation by telling you how your future will be so positive without them and how they are a negative influence on you and the worst two of the lot, "you deserve better than me" and "shall we be good friends". Both of those lines are cheap, meaningless and sometimes very shallow. In the same way, telling you that you will continue to "see" your ex and remain good buddies, is utter nonsense. The world has just changed for good.

The first thing that springs to mind when you’ve been dumped is just how ridiculous are the reasons you are given. On almost ALL occasions, they are not telling you the truth. Why? Because ironically they are trying to spare your feelings. Well now, they have just taken away your trust, your faith, your romantic life in its entirety, even your planned future. But they are trying to spare your feelings.

The amount of lies told to you in one 30 minute period will never be as many as when you are being dumped. I hate the leeches who dump you over a dinner date in a restaurant, or at a party so that you can say less. Their hope is damage limitation to try and get away without "having a scene". I remember one girl, Angela, who dumped me by email. That was probably as low as anyone can stoop. I suppose the phone is as bad, or a note, or through a friend. But remember that most people are cowards. I'd always prefer to know the truth.

The one thing that stands out about being dumped more than anything else, is when one receives no explanation. Oh, you may be given one, but be sure that isn't the real reason my friends. No, you will be given the most trivial of reasons, or worse "it's not you, it's me" Which actually means, "its you". They simply won't tell you why though, because they are scared. Now I can argue this is a positive thing because by being scared of hurting you, there is some semblance of respect still present. And that has to be positive. However there is no future in having any further contact with this person and I firmly recommend when someone walks out of your life, it is for ever. (I know its different if you have children and I won't address that situation here).

Now scientists tell us that when you are dumped you undergo almost exactly the same set of physiological and psychological reactions as bereavement. Clearly if you have been seeing someone for 3 weeks and they decide you are not for them, your feelings are hurt, but nothing more. But, once a relationship has formed and the person walks out of your life then that person may as well have died. Because you will react in the same way.

What I mean but the is is that it is entirely correct and fitting that you want to lock yourself away for a while, to undergo a period of mourning. You have to come to terms with what has happened and that the relationship is finally over. This in fact can take months or years. Your friends will provide you with a support infrastructure and whilst they are well meaning and want you to return to your positive self, be prepared for it taking some time.

You could start dating again but these dates won't lead to anything immediately, not until you are psychologically ready. Personally and privately, I believe that it is only when you are angry with the person who dumped you, even to the point of hating them, before you can get over them. You may think that's too strong, but out of anger often comes clarity of mind. Still loving them is not the way forward. In years to come you may respect them and love their memory, but certainly not now no.

When someone dumps you, they generally mean it and it has taken them a lot of thinking to go through with it. So do not hope they will change their mind, they won't. You will feel betrayed and deceived and you are right. They played with your feelings. But then everyone has a right to leave and no one has the right to stay imprisoned in a relationship they don't want. So it is your own acceptance of the situation that is the most important thing here.

In fact you are the most important thing in the equation. The person who just dumped you no longer matters. Life becomes about you again and what you want. You are the director of your own movie , your life, so you hire and fire the cast and crew as you like. If they dumped you, mentally dump them too. But don't dwell on revenge as down that path lays madness awaiting. No, you do need to move on, but only when you are ready and only down the path you choose.

Getting some revenge is an immediate afterthought, because you want to feel the satisfaction of getting even. Of hurting them like they hurt you. But all you do if you publicly display revenge, is look somewhat pathetic. I do not advocate revenge in that way. The best way for any revenge is to get even in a constructive way that leaves your dumper looking like the fool. I remember being dumped by an ex, only to leave the city and get a glamorous job abroad a few weeks later and letting her know it.

That gave me the satisfaction of knowing we were even. Life moved on.
Being dumped is an awkward mess that hurts us and cannot be trivialized. It means that the person we entrusted with our souls has turned round and said they don't want it. It makes us feel cheap and worthless and unwanted. We don't want other fish in the sea, we wanted them. But its too late, its over.

Here are some tips I think are essential when getting dumped:
Don't believe the reasons you are given when you are dumped as you may be being lied to
If you spot a trial run, you may be dumped within days so anticipate it
Don't dump them first because you thought you spotted a trial run though !
Allow the person to say why your relationship has ended but give them little in return.
They want you to forgive them and tell them its all right.
It isn't so don't let them off the hook whatsoever. Never.
Allow yourself a mourning period of however long it takes
Don't start dating immediately, not until you are ready
Do realize that seeing other people though, will make things easier
Don't hope that your ex will return, its highly unlikely
Start thinking about yourself as number 1 priority and spoil yourself
Do not keep hold of any joint possessions or mementos.
The relationship is over and mementos will hurt you.
Throw all their things away and put photos in a box
Never hang out where you may meet you ex.
Talking things over doesn't work.
If they want you they will come crawling back
If you accept your ex back again you are playing with fire.
Better to say good-bye once and for all.
You deserve betterRemember that the person who dumped you has lost you and will not meet anyone like you again. Their loss.
Allow yourself to be angry with the person who dumped you and mentally dump them too
Finally, when all is said and done, it is sometimes better to change jobs and even move location to forget someone. You can argue well why should I, but let's be realistic, it may be the only answer. We are talking about your life here, not someone elses'. You deserve better because you are worth it.

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FOUR REASONS TO BREAK UP WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND

YOU ARE LEADING HER ON
If you are with a woman who you know is falling for you, but you are aware that you are personally not falling in love with her, then you owe it to this woman to spare her feelings and end the relationship. Women sometimes have the tendency to let themselves become attached to a man that is not attached to them. If you do not see a future with your girlfriend, then don’t have a present with her. You can’t keep a lady around just because you can stand her. You can’t stay in a relationship out of convenience. You should never continue a romance that you are not invested in just for the physical rewards.

If you are not intending to take this relationship to the next level, and you know that the girl that you are with is already picking out china patterns, then you have to do the right thing: break it off. If you care about her at all, then you owe it to her not to lead her on. The only reason to continue a relationship is because you believe that there is a future in it. You can date and you can have flings with women with no intention of building a relationship, but you have to be honest with the women that you are with so that they do not end up feeling deceived and manipulated.

SHE CAN’T BE TRUSTED
If your girlfriend has been unfaithful to you, and you are unable to trust her, then you should break up with her. This is not to say that there are no circumstances in which cheating should be forgiven, but you have to evaluate that on an individual basis. First of all, do you think that she is truly remorseful and will not do it again, or do you think that she is just sorry that she got caught? You have to decide if you will be able to have faith in your relationship anymore. If you are not able to trust your girlfriend, then you need to break up with her. You will become a jealous person if you stay in a relationship with someone that you do not believe in. You should be with a woman who is mature enough to be honest with you. If your girlfriend felt she needed to stray from the relationship, then you should wonder why.

Have you been unfaithful to her? Do the two of you spend as much time together as you did when you first started the relationship? She might have been looking for someone to talk to when you were emotionally unavailable, and what started off as innocent flirtation led to infidelity. People do make mistakes, but if the mistake is going to cause you to be insecure and paranoid in your relationship, then you should break it off.

YOUR LIFE HAS CHANGED FOR THE WORSE
Relationships can change your life, but the goal is for your life to be changed for the better, not the worse. If you feel like you are no longer a happy and confident person when you are with your girlfriend, then you are in an unhealthy relationship. Having a girlfriend is not worth sacrificing your happiness. Sometimes if a guy who is very inexperienced with women gets a girlfriend, he wants to stay in the relationship even if the woman is a witch to him. If you are a man who has had a hard time playing the dating game, you might have resigned yourself to the idea that you have to settle for whoever will be with you. Wrong!

You are better off alone than with someone who does not treat you with care and respect. It is unfair to you to settle for someone who does not value you. You deserve to be with someone who shows you the same love and kindness as you show them. If your girlfriend embarrasses you in front of your friends by demeaning you or if she is constantly pointing out your flaws and imperfections, then you owe it to yourself to break up with her and find someone who is deserving of your love.

YOUR GUILTY CONSCIENCE
Sometimes a man will stay with a woman because he feels that it will destroy her if he ends the relationship. If you care about a woman, but you are no longer in love with her, then it is in both of your best interests in the long run to end the relationship. Your girlfriend does not want to be in a relationship with someone who cares about her on a purely platonic level. She may be very hurt and saddened to see your relationship come to a close, but if you are not invested in this relationship, it is not going to survive, and the longer that you wait to end it, the worse things will become. You can feel bad that you are breaking her heart, but you should not feel guilty for being honest about your feelings.

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Online Flirting – It Is Fun And A Great Way To Pass Your Time

The Internet has opened up vast horizons to people from all over the world to speak with each other, to date online, to flirt online. Online flirting can be extremely entertaining if nothing else. There are millions of people out there who are seeking companionship over the Net. These are people who are too busy for a regular date, too lazy to make the effort in person, or to shy.The Advantages Of Online Flirting

Online Flirting Can Be Fun - The first thing that you will say about online flirting is that it is a lot of fun. There is something so amusing in the fact that you can chat with anyone out there and flirt as much as you want. If it gets out of hand, you can always back off and that person will never hear of you again.Online flirting can end up in lasting relationships – often what starts as an online flirting can end up in wonderful relationships. There are many genuine people out there and it is very much possible to fall in love online and live happily ever after.

Online flirting can be a great pastime. For those who only want entertainment, there is nothing better than online flirting. You can get all the fun you want right in the comfort of your house. If you want, you can use a web camera and then take the light flirting to the next level – serious flirting – depending upon your mood.It is easy to make friends.

People who are on the Net chatting are looking for friends and friendship. Hence, it is easy to make friends. The online dating and friendship websites normally offer you country wise chat rooms or regional chat rooms. Hence, you can befriend any type of people from wherever you want. There are many out there who choose friends from all over the world and in the meantime learn a good deal about their local customs and traditions.

Online flirting is a great way to start knowing how others see you. Side by side, it is a wonderful way to look at yourself. Sometimes, the feedback you get from the online chatting can be brutally truthful. If you are open to criticism, you can indeed learn a good deal from this exercise and come out a much-enriched person.Start on this journey today. You never know what destination you will reach. Whatever it may be, you are guaranteed to have a lot of fun on the way.

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Seduction Tips That Will Work For Both Men And Women

Seduction is an art that needs to be done precisely in order to obtain any results from both men and women. Here are a few seduction tips that I hope will help you seduce your partner successfully every single time.

Create The Mood
Probably the most important part in seduction is creating the atmosphere in order to set the right mood. There are many ways in which you can set the right atmosphere and it is up to you to decide how elaborate to be; you can start by having a candle lit diner, it is important it is candle lit because or at least you dim the lights in the dining area as dim lights always bring a romantic allure.If you don’t feel like cooking a candle light diner, which does take a lot of work you can set the mood after a normal diner by reaching for a bottle of wine and some crackers, slow music, which you must ensure that is what he or she likes.

Dress To Seduce
The next seduction tip is dressing for the occasion, which is as important especially for men who are aroused by visuals therefore get in the right lingerie and be as provocative as possible in your talks and actions.If however, you don’t want to be too direct the nest seduction tip will take you to apply a massage to your partner; you can apply a massage on the whole body or on a particular part of the body for example, for women men can start being seductive by giving them a foot massage.

Prepare The Bedroom
Yet another great seduction tip will lead you straight to be bedroom where you don’t have to do much but ensure that you have satin or silk sheets, dim light or scented candles and music of choice; champagne or a glass of wine is always welcome as long as both you and your partner enjoy it.However, if you have missed the diner, after diner, and the bedroom seduction possibilities, here is a seduction tip that you can use on your partner when in bed or even when he or she is asleep; a light massage or caress can awake the senses of both men and women and it is probably the most successful seduction tip of all because you are having direct contact with the person by touching the skin, which automatically awakes the senses.

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Revealing Your Past

Everyone has a past. Some of it is great and we want the world to know of our triumphs and achievements, while other parts of it might not be something to be proud of. Our experiences may have made us who we are today, but we don't necessarily want to shout about all of them from the rooftops.Eventually, a new girl is going to start asking questions about your history. Some of your past is straightforward and can be discussed there and then. The rest of your history might be trickier to disclose, so you'll have to be selective about which details to reveal and which should stay in the vault.If you have difficulty discerning between these two categories, however, follow our guide to what you should keep quiet from your new love.

Number of women
The one question most women will push is how many women you've slept with. It's also one question you should avoid answering like the plague. There is no good answer to this. If you’ve slept with too few, she'll think you're inexperienced and sheltered. If you’ve slept with too many, she’ll assume you're a player just looking to add some notches to your bedpost.Avoid answering by insisting it doesn't matter. Tell her all that is in the past and it doesn't matter now because you're with her. If she's forcing the issue, cliches such as “You're the only one who matters” or jokingly insisting she was your first could get you out of it. Similarly, don't express any interest in her number.If you feel compelled -- or coerced -- to give an answer, stick to the 7-11 rule: If you've been with less than seven women, round up that figure; if there's been more than 11, knock it back down to 11.

Past relationships
Many women ask questions about a man’s past relationships to try and figure out what kind of boyfriend he'll be. How should you handle her dabble in private investigation? Simply don't go into too much detail.In the early stages of a relationship, talking about an ex should be completely off-limits. They just aren't relevant to the new thing you have going on. Later, as you start to find out more about each other, references to past girlfriends should be limited -- ideally to just a name, a time and a vague description of why it ended.It's important to show you aren't still emotionally involved in the relationship, which means you shouldn't recount every little thing she did to hurt you. When giving a reason for the breakup, stick to generalities, such as “We were heading in different directions” or “We just outgrew each other,” rather than a blow-by-blow account of every argument you had.Don't overplay all the bad points of past relationships in an attempt to show the new girl you're over an ex. You'll come across as bitter and still stuck on it. This also sends warning signals to her that if the two of you break up it could be a nasty, drawn-out process.

Discussing all the good points of a past relationship is a tricky issue. It could lead to jealousy, resentment or her thinking you're still in love with the ex -- you wouldn't like it if all she talked about was how great the boyfriend before you was, now would you? It's best to keep these memories to yourself, and if your current girl does ask about them reply, “I can't really remember -- I haven't thought about her in such a long time.”

Unsavory history
You might think your misspent youth could provide some stories that will make her laugh, but think carefully about the ones you tell. If she's a conservative who’s dead against drugs, don't tell her about that week you spent in Amsterdam. Likewise, a brief spell of shoplifting as a kid could cause her to view the adult you in the wrong light.Everyone has little adventures in their past that could prove unpalatable to others. As you get to know your new girl better, you can judge which of your stories she will find amusing or interesting, and which stories you should keep buried.

Hidden past
Some of us, however, might have some very big events in our past. Which ones to tell and which to conceal depend on the nature of those secrets and how they could affect the present. For example, an outstanding parking ticket is OK to “forget” -- it's unlikely to cause any problems for your relationship. However, if there is an arrest warrant with your name on it in the next state, it's probably wise to 'fess up.The same could be said for drug abuse, gambling debts, or any other big secret. If it's truly in the past and done with, there's little point dragging it up too soon. But if there is a chance it could come back to bite you (and her) on the ass, a good move could be to put all your cards on the table.

Wild sexual experiences
That night you went home with the stripper... Those twins in the next dorm at college... That 30-year-old woman you hooked up with when you were 17. Everyone has those little sex stories they're proud of, but don't necessarily brag about them to mom. Well, you shouldn't brag about them to a new girlfriend, either.While you don't want to come across as inexperienced and naive, you also don't want to paint yourself as a debauched libertine. A couple of steps toward kinky is desirable: Let her know you're open to light bondage, blindfolds, spanking, etc. But don't let her know you once owned an extensive collection of rubber wear.Save the sex stories for your buddies. With them, it's all laughs. But see how much you'll be laughing when the new girl leaves you for being a pervert, or she tells you a few stories of her own.

it's in the vault
Covering up the past may not be the ideal way to start a new relationship, but it is the easiest, safest route to take. Whether you choose to neglect to mention some events or downright lie about them is up to you. Any detail from the past that could rear its ugly head and cause problems should be dealt with. The rest can be swept under the rug -- to lie next to all the secrets she's been keeping from you.

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